Hi everyone, please forgive me for the ramble and also if I don't get the abbreviation thing just yet... My story so far, I met my husband 10 years ago, I had literally just left my previous husband, our relationship was amazing from the beginning, meeting him was like finding the other half of myself, I moved from my home to where he lived three hours away, we have had a roller coaster of events occur in the last three years alone, my husband's father died suddenly, and he was the one to find him, we had identical twin boys (we already have an older some who's now 7-twins are now 3) we have gone through infidelity-him not me, twice, he told me in march he wasn't happy, hadn't been for a long time, that he loved me, not in love with me, thinks we're done. So for a couple of months, he lived between our house, his mums, and a local hotel. 7 weeks ago he officially rented his own place, gave me a key, so I could come and go whenever I wanted, told me to give him a couple of months to get his head sorted then we could start moving back in together. We were going really well until about 4 weeks ago and it's like he's shut down, no more ssleepovers, we were having sex and it was amazing, now nothing, he's going out all the time, buying new clothes, and won't talk to me about what's going on, we relate well with the kids, still have family night every week, and he still texts me 3 happy things that have happened at the end of every day. I'm so petrified that my marriage is over, and I don't know what to do..again so so sorry for the rambling post, any advice or input is greatly appreciated. .
