It's been a while, but things are improving

[JustLearning]

Ok, guess it's time to update my thread again, since I'm on the last page! Yikes, time goes by so fast!

I've been off school this week. My time off between semesters. I'm back to school on Mon again for the Spring session. I got my grades today for Winter semester and got a B+, A-, and an A! Yippee!! The B+ surprised me because that was the class I had gotten so far behind in. So, I'm really pleased. And have enjoyed this week off but am already looking forward to the next class, another Math class, to start.

Things with H seem to continue to improve. He is still planning on going to FL with us, which I'm getting really excited about. He's been talking about the lease on his car (and mine) and whether we should trade it in before or after the trip. We have also started the racing season and has started off really well.

He's still not staying here at home, and not sure when or if it will happen. My guess is after our trip, he may actually talk about it. Who knows. Another expectation that I keep at a low minimum. The great thing about this new R, is that we communicate better than we have for years. It's amazing the things I say that I would never have said before. I stand up for myself now, my schedule is just as important as his and I take care of myself. And I know he is noticing!

I actually enjoy the sitch right now. There are times when my patience don't do well, but for the most part I feel like we are starting from the beginning.

So, things are looking better and better. What a difference a year can make! (Even though we've been at this for 21 months!) Last spring and summer were horrible, but this year they look quite promising!

Take care everyone

JL