I do see the anger as important MrBond. I have not lashed out at H in about a month now, despite feeling like it very many times. I know that's not much but it's something, especially given the circumstances. As you may know, there are counselors who specialize in anger management, you can take a class or meet 1x1 with one to specifically address that. I am entirely open to that if I find the class I am taking online is ultimately not effective enough. I don't put that in the same category as just a 'general' IC, without a specific purpose. That's the C that I am not interested in.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14