Claire, I thought of you today at my IC appointment. I told my C that I was sad that I'm beginning to struggle to remember why I thought the M was worth fighting for. He said that's the right place for me to be for now -- that the relationship has ended and I need to get to a place where I understood that and can mourn it. If someday down the road H and I are able to reconnect and build a new relationship, that I need to treat it as a truly new relationship with him. Processing the old one as gone makes that possible.
What do you think?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
