This is an instance where the right IC is probably the better option. What you're trying to cope with is your own emotions rather than a DBing issue. You're looking for long-term processing skills.
We had the wrong counselor for a while and the right counselor for a while. If we'd only had the right one I might never have needed to come to this board. I stuck with the good one and he's been enormously helpful. It's worth getting a referral from a friend who understands your personality and give it a try. It's really interesting to see how you have been working so hard at DB and then how angry you get when you see some success.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
