No, I do not have an IC. Although I must say, I am quite dubious of counselors in general. I've found they can do significant harm. I must prefer the coaching approach that MWD prescribes with it's solution focus. I do have a DBing coach, maybe it's time to make another appt with her.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14