No, I do not have an IC. Although I must say, I am quite dubious of counselors in general. I've found they can do significant harm. I must prefer the coaching approach that MWD prescribes with it's solution focus. I do have a DBing coach, maybe it's time to make another appt with her.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14