Are you kidding? You've posted your text conversations here which show you are very controlling. How did that work out for you? Don't mention the ring... unless you want her to tell you to move out again.

Everyone here is genuinely trying to help you, even MrBond. How are you not getting this?

Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014