Ok so I woke up in the morning n she was sitting up.. I grabbed her and slowly pulled her towards me like a hug and she layed on me for awhile.. she was still off with me and has taken our wedding ring off last night.. she broke her phone.. she didnt say bye in the morning..
I havnt mentioned moving out today I however did call and asked if she was at work and what not.. I confirmed that my parents were coming over on sunday which she said cool to.. I asked if we could watch a movie n she didnt know.. and it seems she has cancelled her plans to go see her friend today.
"I grabbed her and slowly pulled her towards me like a hug and she layed on me for awhile.. she was still off with me and has taken our wedding ring off last night.. she broke her phone.. she didnt say bye in the morning.."
Seriously...READ THE BOOK! How many more mistakes can you make? You keep showing your insecurities and that hug was just as bad as those clingy texts you send.
Is there any reason why anyone should continue to post to you since you don't listen to the advice given? I mean, I would say everyone here has been wasting their time with you and your empty promises.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
"I grabbed her and slowly pulled her towards me like a hug and she layed on me for awhile.. she was still off with me and has taken our wedding ring off last night.. she broke her phone.. she didnt say bye in the morning.."
Seriously...READ THE BOOK! How many more mistakes can you make? You keep showing your insecurities and that hug was just as bad as those clingy texts you send.
Is there any reason why anyone should continue to post to you since you don't listen to the advice given? I mean, I would say everyone here has been wasting their time with you and your empty promises.
Are you for real.. I hugged her because I argued back last night.. and thought that would have been a 180 for me.. she did not expect me to hug her...
So if she says I have to go today how can I keep myself there? I cant forcefully do it because its her flat.. only shes in the tenancy agreement and im not..
Mr. Bond is very much "for real". He is very to the point, wasting no time on pleasantries. He has an innate ability to get to the root of the problem quickly. LISTEN TO HIM.
READ THE BOOK.
She doesn't want your hugs right now, even if they are a 180. You can't 180 anything that personal right now. Please read the book.
And do not move out of the flat if at all possible. Until she's called the police to have you evicted as a squatter, you stay put. And don't you be the one to bring up the subject again in any way shape or form. Don't argue about it, just quietly, and peacefully do not move out.
Mr. Bond is very much "for real". He is very to the point, wasting no time on pleasantries. He has an innate ability to get to the root of the problem quickly. LISTEN TO HIM.
READ THE BOOK.
She doesn't want your hugs right now, even if they are a 180. You can't 180 anything that personal right now. Please read the book.
And do not move out of the flat if at all possible. Until she's called the police to have you evicted as a squatter, you stay put. And don't you be the one to bring up the subject again in any way shape or form. Don't argue about it, just quietly, and peacefully do not move out.
Trust me my wife will break everything in the house.
"Are you for real.. I hugged her because I argued back last night.. and thought that would have been a 180 for me.. she did not expect me to hug her..."
Yes I am for real. You hugged her because you were insecure. Plain and simple. Go back and read your posts. Look at how they sound. She broke her phone for God's sake and YOU decide to "grab" her and hug her. Why do you bother posting here if you're not going to read the book or follow any advice?
Plus you didn't tell us that she owned the apartment you're in. If you have no legal right to it, then you need to leave. Simple as that.
Let me put it to you this way. You've gone and done whatever you wanted so far. Has it gotten her to fall into your arms in love? If not, then what you're doing or what you think is "right" isn't working.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
It definitely aint but sometimes I feel it is due to the future talks she does.. so if she says leave today I will leave mrbond.. I have mentioned it breifly on my first topic im sure
Ok so she hasnt mentioned anything about me moving out since ive come home.. shes been giving me the silent treatment since.. shes in the other room right now.. im reading the db book..
