Sex was great, then we married?

[GoatGal]

OK. so maybe "not depressed". Whatever.

What difference does it make?

I talk to you about trying to see things from her point of view, more than once. I've been there, I have some idea. I feel like you haven't listened to a word I've said other than find a way to discount it because you know better.
I know you know her and I don't. But you're not "a woman of a certain age" either. Don't think for a moment that doesn't play into this.

And I wouldn't even say that except that you shared she'd had cancer that required a hysterectomy (?), diabetes with peripheral neuropathy... and some other telling things.
You want things to be "like they were". Well, they're not. That's marriage.

Things happen, people get sick, they make mistakes, they change, life throws a curveball---and that's where the sheep are separated from the goats.

Which is why we're all here.
(Now, whether we're sheep or goats is up for grabs, but I'm going with goats because they make their own decisions, whereas sheep flock like fish. But I digress. Again.)

You say you "care about her" and I have no doubt that you do.
But this is quickly followed by "Yeah. Ok... But what about ME???"

Can you see where I'm going with this?

You really don't seem to be thinking about her, except in relation to what she can do to fulfill your needs at the moment.

And.... tag me. I'm out.

---GG