It's the detach bit I'm not sure about. I'm still waiting for the DB book to arive, I presumed there's something in there. What I'm not clear about (actually that's just about everything right now) is how detached? Do I not talk about it with her? Do I move out? I don't think that's what it means as I've seen other advice saying don't do that. At least I'm still at home at weekends. How do I act? Just getting through the day is an acheivement at the moment.
