My biggest problem right now is detaching period. Part of it is we see each other 3 times a week or more dropping off kids. Hard to get her out when I see her so much. Then family and friends try to advise, the one good thing there is everyone is saying don't give up, it's totally worth it. But it's hard to hear that from her family. She has told me that she has not told them anything, and they say the same. I think she is guilty for doing this and afraid to say anything, she hinted to that once. She also said she was ashamed to admit to our problems. But I think I just need to move on, just have to find the strength to do it.
