Regarding what to say to your W before she leaves, and the idea of telling her to turn off her cell phone. Why do you think it's your place to tell her what to do? Why do you think she will do what you state you think she should do?
MYOB and work on your own side, let her do what she feels she needs to do on hers. The less you say the better off you'll be.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.