I had to check in due to your screen name.

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Can someone this angry turn around in 6 mo?

He didn't just get angry.

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I will try to DB another 4 months, but with him avoiding the house and not even talking to me, how good can that work?

How about you go 4 months and reevaluate. You'll see it said a lot around here, It's a marathon, not a sprint. Things didn't get broken in 4 months, things won't be repaired in 4 months. Timelines are your enemy if you want to save your M.

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Like to control things. He hates that now ( liked that trait before)

Who likes being controlled? I'd go deeper into this because for many (most?) of us here, this is the root of things.

Why you want to save your M because it's work.

Last edited by labug; 06/18/14 05:14 PM.
Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss