The trial and error part is where I get confused. I've been advised by everyone to go NC (which I've done and haven't faltered at all). I have received two texts from her in 5 weeks.
The book mentions experiment and monitor results. But all I do is NC. How am I to experiment when all I do is NC?
First of all...define success ????
What you are doing HAS worked....
You are just too focused on the forest to see the trees...
Two weeks ago, you were wondering IF you would ever hear from her again...and now..what ?
Twice in two weeks ???
Sounds like progress to me, just not on YOUR timetable....
