Don't borrow trouble. Get your rest and sccept the help for the moment. Plenty of time later to tell him he can't just move home because OW kicked him out; he would have to DO THE WORK before you let him back. But for now just accept it for what it is.....temporary help....and enjoy some sleep.
He doesn't want to be here. And it's hard on me. I honestly don't know which is worse being alone or knowing someone is only here to help you because they have no where else to go
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction