Sex was great, then we married?

[MrBond]

"I'm not sure how to convince her to try?"

You're still trying to control her. You can talk to her about it (with the understanding that she has a right to say 'no') and leave it up to her. Same thing with doing something to try and get her in the mood. You can try different things but ultimately it will be her decision to want to have sex or not.