"She likes it, she just doesn't want it, I think. It's strange, hard to describe. Both of us can have it, one of us wants it badly. "
Then that's your answer right there. SHE has to make a conscious effort to try even if she doesn't feel like it. That is totally out of your control. You can try to encourage, but you can't force it. Try and see if there is something that might encourage her to try.
I'm not sure how to convince her to try?
I'd imagine maybe couples counseling would help, but we're still waiting on finding one from her insurance. Other than that, from what I've read it seems like I'm the only person who can't ask her to try outright in any way.
I understand that. It makes sense. But I'd still like for her to consider it, I just don't know how. Just the suggestion of it adds pressure, even if it shouldn't, so I can't even bring it up at this point, let alone slide her a copy of Michele's books.
