Mr. Bond is very much "for real". He is very to the point, wasting no time on pleasantries. He has an innate ability to get to the root of the problem quickly. LISTEN TO HIM.
READ THE BOOK.
She doesn't want your hugs right now, even if they are a 180. You can't 180 anything that personal right now. Please read the book.
And do not move out of the flat if at all possible. Until she's called the police to have you evicted as a squatter, you stay put. And don't you be the one to bring up the subject again in any way shape or form. Don't argue about it, just quietly, and peacefully do not move out.
