Beatrice- re the toddler ref. At one point my h actually ran down the hall screaming I hate you I hate you I hate you and then slammed the door. It was at that point I knew I was no longer dealing with a rational adult

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15