"Like I said though, lets not pretend that people are not here to get their spouse back. My concern is that I never see her, so any changes that she wanted, will never be noticed."
No one has pretended anything to argue against that. But the FACT right now is that you can't force her to see the changes you've made within yourself. Right now, the only thing in your power to do is change for the better and once you're on stronger ground, you can try to initiate contact by giving her a casual "how are you doing?" type of message.
In fact, she doesn't contact you anyway so even if you did find someone else, she probably wouldn't care. Keep the thoughts on making yourself happy first.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
