dawgy Don't panic. Just stick to Sandi's list. Act happy and content. Stop doing anything that causes her to back away from you (e.g. pursuing, freaking out, panicking, etc.) Read and reread Sandi's list. It will take some time. She may even move out in the meantime. My wife moved out 7 months ago (5 months after starting her A) and hasn't move back yet but her affair has ended (I think) and she's getting ready to come back (it seems). It took 7 months for your W to get to where she is today. She won't come back in 12 days. It may take months for her to get to a place in her mind where she'll consider coming back. It's the hardest things you'll ever do. I know because I've been there and I'm doing it. Be patient. Get a life (GAL). Work out 3 times a week. Eat well. Doesn't your local library have DR?
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
