Now she suggested we each find a place to stay and we split staying at the house with the children with 4 days one week and 3 the next week. And to decide on 3 days that will be the same and one day that we alternate. Has anyone ever tried this arrangement. I am not sure what else to do in this sitch. Just my presence cause problems. She says I have made changes but nothing works for her. I may suggest renting an one bedroom apt that we share. and see what happens there. Advice, input pros, cons, I am tired and it is late.