Go for it. Regardless of what the H does. Reread what you wrote when you described this place, and your future life in Florida. You came across as HAPPY! Ultimately that is what you need. If your H wakes up, he will follow. It would be the ultimate sign he is ready.
Me I just moved up from Florida, and would not mind getting back there someday.
Best of luck.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16