URGENT advice needed - 3yrs separated, sky falling

[Ben2010]

That's great. Sounds like you really have some motivation now and it looks promising. I was really just saying that you can leave him the same way he is leaving you. It sounds like he still wants you around but isnt willing to give up his lifestyle. Maybe when you move he will follow or maybe not and you can have a great life anyway with the kids. Either way I wish you the best of luck with it and keep us updated as to what kind of offer he makes.