labug - question for you. I seem to remember that you had responded to someone else about them not wanting to hear what their H was doing or was up to because it would hurt them (maybe bluesgal or 3boyzmom?), and I found your response helpful and told myself "I need to remember that for when I'm really down about that!" and now I can't find it anywhere. Does that sound familiar? Can you re-share your wisdom?
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
