Ben I am reminded of the recent post where it says the LBS who almost always had success were the ones who truly let go. I understand wanting to have faith the M will work out. We all want that here. But in order for you to truly improve yourself, you have to really be willing to let her go. Take your love for her and stick it in a box and put that box on the shelf. Then forget about it. Work on yourself. If in the future you find her knocking at your door, go back to that box and look inside. If it is still something you want, then work at it. Otherwise, put that box back on the shelf.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16