Will post long update and beg for advice later tonight after the kids go to bed but need some quick advice if anyone is online and can help out.

H is staying here and I need to know if I should ask him to discuss how long he is going to be here or just keep my mouth shut??

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction