You said that she said that she was going to talk to the OM while she was gone about your situation. What is her decision now? Is she still going to leave and M the OM? If she is, then you can have her move out.
She says she is conflicted. She also says she's being more open and truthful with me. For example she told OM that she is getting an apartment. She tells me she's not sure. She wants to see what the " relationship counselor " thinks we should do. What's best for her and my son.
She always talks about my son16. She will say that her main priority is him, that sometimes she thinks she should dump both of us.
He's had it already he wants her gone...
The thing is I never know if when she says she is conflicted does she mean ;
Me versus other man
Or.
Staying for son16 and divorcing in two years versus ending it now.
That's the question I can not get answered.
I do know that she is starting to wonder about OM's past...not sure what she has found out.
