its not! I am sure its not helping matters! I need to be strong about not moving out and tough it out! She thinks it will be easier transition for kids! i have a feeling that the OM maybe in the background coaching her on this idea of getting me out as soon as possible. I think there maybe some issues developing there as well! But she says its been over! I just don't believe her in my heart! I am going to keep trying detachment in a loving way and see where the chips may fall. i think she is trying to make it as easy as possible on herself! The lying and manipulation are starting to where her out! I am keeping faith ,taking kids to church working bible kids camp in a few weeks. wife is talking about looking at other churches <go figure, we go to a small 70 members church, very close and people can probably see what is happening> i know its killing my wife on the inside. she is just running from all her problems. i need to keep myself from coming aprt and stay strong for kids. Wife has been yelling at 12 yr old D about anything and everything! i put the twins to bed 4-5 times a week and say a prayer with them for last 6 months. wife listens if she is in there with me but doesn't participate. And this is from a woman that says she is praying for me.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
