We all tell the newbies here not to move out of their house.
It's just about the only topic around here that gets near-100% unanimous opinion. Exposure, tough boundaries, sex-while-they're-wayward, do-I-wear-my-wedding-rings . . . those all have reasonable opinions on all sides, but [b]the BETRAYED SPOUSE SHOULD NEVER MOVE OUT OF THEIR MARITAL BED, OR THEIR MARITAL HOME. Period.[/b]