Just got off the phone with BIL. He says I should sever all ties ASAP and file. Get on with my next chapter. He said that will be healthiest for me and the boys.

Me: 44, WAW: 49
S: 16, S: 12
M: almost 20 yrs 08/94
1st A: 08/13/04
2nd A confirmed: 4/26/14
Sep 5/15/14