This is probably a question that comes up a lot for people, but I'm starting to wonder if I did all I could do? Should I be contacting him?
It's been quiet since he was here yesterday and left again. I'm assuming he's still staying at a hotel but I really don't know. On the one hand I think it's a good idea to leave him alone to figure this out himself without my interference. But on the other hand, one of the things he told me when we spoke the other day was that he thought I wanted him to leave, that I say things in arguments that he doesn't forget, and it lead him to think I'm not happy with him. Nothing could be further from the truth. When things are good I always compliment him, support and tell him how highly I think of him. We always say (said) I love you, he calls (called) me from work daily or twice daily just to check in. Now I think he doesn't know how I really feel, since he says he feels like I kicked him out as well.
Is it wise for me to reach out once more and tell him 'something'? Maybe he does think I don't want to be with him and is debating whether or not to even bother coming home, ever. Maybe it's my panic...I would hate to see him sign a lease on an apartment if there was something I should've been doing to make one more last attempt. Maybe my silence is seen as uncaring?
My usual thing is to try to reach out - although I don't know if that's such a great idea now. I did tell him on the call that I never wanted him to leave, and thought he might come back, etc. Anyone have a suggestion? I'm not obsessing or anything, I just honestly don't quite know which direction to go on this. Thanks.
