Hi Bea,
Just read some of your thread and my goodness, your ex is fruit loops!The weirdest part of all that, is how he was such a loving and caring guy before his MLC! I have seen how they can change from loving and caring into a selfish, only care about what they "need" (away from us is usually #1)person but he has become something out of a movie!

Of course the line about the only reason people think he is acting "wrong' is because you poisoned them against him is so par for the course. My W hasn't even left yet and is already accusing me of PLANNING to do just that. Not even that I have! She just knows I'm going to do it! I think what she and your exH really "know" is that they are in the wrong and are afraid of facing up to what they are doing is wrong in almost anyone's book.

I wish I had something that could help but I have no idea what you should do. Witness protection? For a guy who decided to leave his wife and family for some OW he sure seems to think he is such a saint! Not sure how some of these WAS's live with themselves. Must be really awful being THAT angry all the time!

Good luck Bea! You WILL win out in the end!