Feeling ansy again so going to post all the reasons why it's GOOD to be patient and for H and I to continue to be physically separated right now: *time apart allows me to work on myself *the longer I am alone, the more confident I become which is better for me whether H and I stay together or not *the slower we take things the more confident we will be if we decide to get back together; rushing reconciliation and expecting too much too soon was likely a major factor in our initial reconciliation failing *time for me to do things I've been saying I want to do for years, get the house organized, gardening, running, etc. If he moves back in and kids are home full time again it will be much harder *time to find ME without all the distractions of H and kids *time to prove to not only H but MYSELF that the changes I am making are truly sustainable *time to be more confident that H truly is the right choice for me and that I can get over the A
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
