Wonka -in theory you are correct. However, I spend a lot of my time between two countries, and so does my xh. My lawyer friend said it would be difficult to to enforce this. And because I no longer take his calls he writes to my lawyer - who now writes to me . . . .. and then he gets his lawyer to write to my lawyer, and asks me for his legal costs
I am waiting to discuss this latest round of madness with a lawyer friend - my xh's view is that my not communicating with him is a sign that I have problems, not that he has become and intrusive insensitive bully.
He affects to believe that he has done nothing to complain about. Simply left a marriage that no longer worked for him, and that everyone else has an inexplicable problem with his behaviour and attitude. Mainly because I have poisoned them against him.
The narrative is delivered with such conviction that it makes the Gettysburgh address look amateurish
