Thank you. I needed an outside perspective. I'm feeling on edge (and obviously not detached enough) cause H sent me a text with a pic of some chairs and said "thought you'd like the color of these." So he's thinking of me...but I don't really want that, if that makes any sense. I don't want it unless it means something. Even though this has been going on for 6 months, the physical separation has only been a week so I'm a complete newbie on how to handle that.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final