Pilot thanks for checking in. Great feedback. Bug, w keeps talking about how "mist of the stuff in the house is mine.." she wont list what she wants and she has stated one offs like....well the bedroom is mine and the couch...and the dining room set. So i found sales to replace her stuff with my own. Now the sales are past and some of things i like are sold. I will find others...but tired of limbo. And having her dangle it over my head is beyond old.... I want my own life and to not have her "stuff" in my space for me to take care of. There has already been a couple of spills and stains on things since she left. Its just life....but i cleaned them up. I no longer want to be concerned with hers vs .mine. Shes not coming back. I am not a warehouse. My 2 cents.

I cant fit 2 of everything in my home and since shes not coming back she should move her things and be out of the way. Make sense?


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14