wife had asked for talk today so I didn't avoid. I let her do most of talking. she brought up idea of me getting an apartment and slowly letting kids what is going on. I listened validated but kept quiet she then got mad and asked if I was going to respond. I told her I understood where she was coming from but needed some time to sort through. she then brought up house and said she thought it would be best for kids if they stayed in home till next spring with her. too much change for kids. I told her I would think through. I did tell her I was on my own time line and sorry if I couldn't commit to her idea at this time. she then got mad and said well it will be this way one way or other and you can work with me on this or I would just do it. we talked a little about where things went wrong. her answer has always been its just us. I asked her to explain. I want to be friends but need her to work with me on this. she told me she would always love me but that she just doesn't feel it any longer. We talked a little more and she is suggesting we spend at least a day a week together as a family. We are going to go up to a family graduation party in two weekends. idea came up about me living with my sister for a while so transition would be easier for kids. sister in town lives 10 minutes away. I don't know if I have much choice in this now. I know she still has love for me and will always care about me. but I need a wife not a friend. any thoughts
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
