Bea,

I think you're gonna need to drop kick XH to the apogee on a permanent basis. Seriously.

He's seeking any form of attention from you. I think I would instruct your lawyer to communicate to XH that he cannot communicate with you any longer in any shape, manner, form, line, dot, comma, whatever and all of his "legal concerns" will need to be directed to the lawyer.

Also I'd look up on the harassment law on the books in your state or XH's state. This has to stop one way or another.

No more taking calls, texts, emails from XH on even family matters. It is up to him to communicate with your sons.

Become the Invisible Woman....like Harry Potter. Hey, here's a cloaking cape for you!