I agree beatrice, in some cases, or some fashion, especially after following your sitch, some do turn vindictive.

I know a few of the meaner things W did/said during the anger stage were directed right at me, on purpose.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm