WH, It appears that the onion is starting to peel away to so that you are now becoming aware of what he's been doing and just how much his ow's family has stepped in to help him. It appears the father purchased her engagement ring as well as $12,000 to pay off his car. Wonder if that was a loan because I sure can't believe anyone would just give him that amount of money in this day and age. Why your h should go back and ask for the $3,000 to pay you what he owes. After all, it looks like Daddy Warbucks doesn't have a problem giving your h money right along.
I do think that more info will come to light as time goes on, but I certainly wouldn't back down on anything that you or your children need.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
