So sorry to hear what your going through. Mine is similar in that, he just got a new place, had to furnish it Etc. I look at the finances and just cry. I think we will be okay, but we have 3 teens. We won't be able to help with college. Or do any extras. I feel drained, and don't even see H as the same person anymore. My H travels for work also, so there is money spent there all the time upfront.
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