Good advice, thank you so much. Yes, i have noticed his anger and guilt whenever I mention his OW's so I will have to stop!!
However, it is not easy - but I will keep trying. It is so much more difficult when I don't see him very much and feel that it is difficult for him to notice me getting on with life, finding joy and doing interesting things when he is not here - (he is on a different continent) and I wonder how he can draw closer to me when he is being fatalistic thinking he has no choice but to live apart from me and his family for at least 10 years. How do I deal with that??
