Okay, since you said a couple days ago that you're learning how not to hide behind the cloak of indifference. How did you handle this conversation yesterday with that in mind?
Following up with some additional insights on this Betsey:
I think in the past, my indifference came across that I didn't care about her.
During Sunday's talk, I tried to be empathetic and tried as much as possible to validate what she was saying.
A key thing she did say was that she was glad we could still talk like this. This is the point where she then asked what I thought about us staying in contact as we moved on.
A few weeks ago, she was pretty certain she could not see that happening and at the very least a maybe.
Trying very hard here not to have any expectations.
It is difficult though. I am struggling to find that space between not pursuing (by reasoning with her, saying that I miss her, etc) and coming across as indifferent(that I don't care about her).
M:36 W:34 T:9,M:4 Me,WAH:7/2011 My apology:12/2012 Her,WAW:01/2013 ILYBINILWY:4/2013 W's EA:5/2013 Sep:9/2013 2nd EA signs:03/2014
