Do I tell him all I know?

[slow_it_down]

In my experience, it's best to pretend the OWs don't even exist. When you are having fun, being happy and doing interesting things, your H will naturally draw closer. Talking about the OWs with him right now will only cause him to feel anger or guilt... Neither of which you want him feeling around you.

Live your life and let him figure his own life out. If you do a good job DBing the OWs may fade away all on their own.