I have read both books . read about 2 weeks ago! I have been trying 180 but slipped back over weekend! Getting ready to meet wife today> she wants to talk> my strategy is to just listen but not try and fix anything> If she talks about big D I am going to listen but not commit to anything I am no where ready to talk about kids, divorce assets any of that. I will just listen to her and let her talk> if she asked me what I am thinking I will let her know that I need to think about things since they are major decisions and I am not ready to discuss. any suggestions


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14