Ben you don't have to assume that each of you walking in wisdom has to mean permanently walking away from one another. Lots of faiths believe God hates divorce. The point is that she's already walking her own path; the prayer is about acknowledging that every person walks his or her own path and you wish her wisdom in her journey. Hopefully the wisdom of her path leads to a restoration of your relationship together.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15