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Scooby, you ok?


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H was not served today. I hope he gets served tomorrow at work in front of ow. He is do two faced. Claims he wants to be best friends, but lies and is very deceptive. He is trying to drop me on his insurance. He also got a debit credit card on a account we hardly use it only has $30 in it. My lawyer says with the serving comes financial freeze, so cannot go hog wild spending. He is very paranoid. If I am out with kids or on my own I get texted and called a bunch, I mean hundreds. If I am not up to anything no texts or phone calls. I can't stand the control freak and paranoia. We will be in same house during this, unless he does something stupid. Ugh. I am going to start posting on surviving d too.

I have a great lawyer. H lawyer is on the crooked side..ugh. I am hoping serving goes easy. He has only said he wants d daily multiple times, never he wants to stay. I know a lot is BC he is so into ow, mlc, and his mental issues. But I have pure disgust for him BC of the cheating, and it makes it easier to detach. The fact that he thought he could erase pur vows is awful. Also, h was not that great before mlc. U will have to lots of work at IC in why I choose control freaks that are verbally abusive.

Thanks for the thoughts and prayers. Have a good night.

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Hey Scooby... Any news? Let us know how you're doing smile


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Scooby! I haven't been to THS in a while, but joined here now that I'm reading the books.

Thinking of you....Serving is a big step. Hugs to you and the kids.

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Look for Scooby's thread over on Surviving the Divorce

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As of today, I don't think her h has been served yet.


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Thanks ladies for letting me know - I will check her out over there


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Scooby posted last night...her husband has been served.


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