Im sorry, but I have read your situation and didnt want to say anything, but your H is a piece of [censored]. No matter how hard it is for you to move you need to do so. He is using you like Ive never seen and has been doing it for years. Move and dont look back, maybe he will come crawling down to Florida for you but if youre lucky he wont. You are still young no matter what you think right now and you will find someone that wont dream of treating you like that. Im sure that isnt what you want to hear, but this is the first thread that Ive read that actually made me angry. And it has nothing to do with me. F*ck him and everything that he wants. Dont buy into his crap. Im gonna repost something that I found from a vet on here named gucci loafer for you:
I know. The majority of men on here struggling just can't seem to let go. It is nothing more than low self esteem and lack of confidence. To top it off, I don't see much of a success rate with the tactics and methods the men are using on this site a working very well. We have men who have been on here from 2 weeks to over two years. Same methods being used by most all and same results happening to most all..
I guess the men who have been on here for so long just need a "little more patience" and understanding before she wakes up...
Maybe tomorrow huh? Maybe three years is the key......
All the while the simple facts and reality that the men who usually have the most succes getting the woman to come back are the ones who let them go the fastest and leave the woman alone the quickest. The men who go out and start getting a life, having fun, mingling and flirting with the opposite sex and living and loving life to the fullest. They stop whining, stop complaining, stop venting, stop journaling and START DOING..
Those are the men who succeed. The evidence is all around these men struggling, but they fail to see....
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
