Something about your post struck a chord with me. Why are you worrying about whether or not you will R with your h if he's been intimate with someone else? I completely understand what you are saying- I do. However, in order to R, it sounds like your h would have to do a significant amount of work himself. You have to keep living your life during that time. How long does it take for your h to work thru his stuff ? Maybe it's 6 months. Maybe it's 6 years. Maybe it's never.
Don't spend time worrying about things that you cannot control. It's just wasted energy. You are worrying about IF you could reconcile IF your h did x, and wonder IF you could get past that IF......that's a bunch of ifs, right?:). I know many of us have done those same things. Problem is it isn't productive.
Enjoy your new furniture and patio!
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 06/17/1402:10 AM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
